WWW - wedding check in

In four short days we will be two short months from our wedding day.  For as long as our engagement has been, it still seems like "holy crap where has the time gone?" I've been ordering about one thing a day. Marking those things off the list. I've got to get my dress altered, it still isn't perfect. The lining on the inside is like inside out and needs to be fixed so the seams don't show. Yea....I know. Paid THOUSANDS for a dress and now I have to pay to get it fixed. Oh well, moving on...

This week I ordered the painting for our bar area. I got the recipe of the signature drink painted. I thought it would be unique and a great keepsake for our home after the wedding. Can't wait to share it with ya'll! The envelopes went to the calligrapher this week, I expect to get those back next week and get the invitations out in the mail then.

I'm definitely at that point where I'm taking things off the list because I know they won't get done. Plus, I've realized that there is such a thing as too many details! Little by little the most important things are finally getting completed and others are being put aside. Here's where we are:

Overall:

1.     Set a date

2.     Book a venue

3.     Book photographer

4.     Engagement photos

5.     Book videographer (taking this off the list)

6.     Book band

7.     Ask bridal party to be in wedding

8.     Create wedding website

9.     Book florist

10. Buy wedding dress

11. Select bridesmaid dresses

12. Order groom’s Tux , shoes, accessories

13.  Groomsmen arrange for tuxes

14. Find veil

15. Order Veil

16. Bride’s shoes

17. Book cake baker

18. Buy cake knife and server

19. Order save the dates

20. Finalize guest list

21. Cake stand

22. Cake topper

23. Ring pillow

24. Order save the dates

25. Send save the dates

26. Order guest book

27. Register

28. Reserve hotel room blocks

29. Hire a calligrapher

30. MOB & MOH dress shopping

31. Find wedding shoes

32. Choose wedding jewelry

33. Purchase garter

34. Clutch for bride

35. Sash or belt for bride

36. Something old

37. Something new

38. Something borrowed

39. Something blue

40. 6 pence

41. Hire Day-Of Coordinator

42. Make day-of emergency kit (coordinator provides)

43. Going away outfit (I think I’ll stay in my dress as long as possible!)

44. Book makeup artist and hair stylist

45. Wedding favors (have them picked out, need to order and assemble)

46. Getting ready outfit for bride and bridesmaids

47. Menu tasting

48. Cake tasting

49. Hair and makeup trial (April, need to schedule date)

50. Get measured for dress (Dec 2012)

51. Pick up dress in Charleston (will now be mailed to me)

52. Order invitations

53. Get invitation envelopes to calligrapher

54. Send invitations

55. Bridal party gifts

56. Family gifts

57. MOH gift

58. Wedding Map

59. Order Chinese Lanterns

60. Purchase wedding bands – bride & groom

61. Put together picture list for photographer

62. Get marriage license

63. Book transportation for wedding party

64. Welcome bags

65. Signature drink painting

66. Gift for Groom  (we have decided not to do gifts but to get a puppy instead!!!)

67. Music selection for band

68. Playlists for cocktail hour

69. Book wedding night hotel room

70. Order thank you notes (may do this after the wedding with a wedding pic)

71. Tips and thank you notes for vendors

72. Signs for bar, guest book, lanterns, bourbon (going to DIY these)

73. Distribute timeline/contacts to family/vendors/DOC

74. GET MARRIED!!

Ceremony:

1.     Book musician

2.     Book church

3.     Pre-marital counseling (church)

4.     Wreaths (florist)

5.     Yard sign (not doing, taking off list )

6.     Programs

7.     Confetti/rose petals (florist)

8.     Music selections

9.     Swag for front of Church (florist)

Reception:

1.     Book caterer

2.     Order rentals (meeting with them Friday)

3.     Decorations for bride and groom’s chairs (bows out of silk fabric, DIY)

4.     Candles (votives, order lots of candles)

5.     Framed family wedding photos  (for guest book table)

6.     Cocktail music selection (band will arrange this)

7.     Monogram table runner for cake table

8.     Escort cards and table number signs

9.     Make table assignments and seating charts (waiting on RSVPs)

10. Monogram wreath for the fireplace (florist & I need to order monogram)

11. Greenery “W” for over bar area

12. Monogram linen napkins (bride & groom)

13. Personalized cocktail napkins & drink stirs

14. Flip flops

15. Accessories for the bourbon bar(cigars (not doing these to save $$)

16. Sparklers (not doing)/lanterns

17. Bandaids, bug spray, or anything for bathrooms at club

18. Silver tray for cards on gift table

Rehearsal Dinner:

1.     Book venue

2.     Rehearsal dinner music

3.     Rehearsal dinner décor/flowers/mason jars

4.     Rehearsal dinner caterer

5.     Rehearsal dinner rentals

6.     Order invitations

7.     Send invitations

8.     Slideshow (delegate to best man)

9.     Signs for food, etc

10. Napkin and utensil packets

11. Order pies from Missy’s

12. Dessert plates etc

13. Any serving pieces we may need

14. Bring engagement pictures book

Sunday Brunch:

1.     Choose a location (Invite close family & bridal party)

2.     Order Invitations

3.     Send invitations

Excetra:

1.     Bachelorette party

2.     Bachelor party (this weekend)

3.     Bridal showers (March 8^th, March 30^th, April 14^th, May 4^th)

4.     Book honeymoon

5.     Honeymoon shopping (bikinis and cover ups)

6.     Bridesmaids Luncheon (May 31st)

7.     Groomsmen Golf Game (May 31^st or DOW)

8.     Hostess gifts (March, April, May)

9.     Wedding announcement in HL

Oh and today is the 8th anniversary of Ben's and my first date! It was my family's Easter dinner in 2005. Yes, it was awkward. I invited him because his family lived out of state and I knew he didn't have Easter dinner plans. I certainly didn't think he would accept my offer. We had met on spring break and that is it. This was our first time hanging out AND he met my family! Haha he was a keeper from the start :)